FAQ'S - Frequently Asked Questions

Q. Why should I choose Select?

A. Select is the most successful introduction agency in the North West and our professional, friendly, confidential, ‘one to one’ service is acknowledged as second to none.

Our caring professional ‘in house’ support team are waiting to help and advise every step of the way – just give them a call. There is ongoing monitoring of each membership to make sure we are getting it right and, importantly – we offer a variety of memberships tailored to individual needs, with a payment structure to suit most budgets.

At Select, we place a great deal of emphasis on safety for both sexes and check each applicant to verify that they are who they say they are and live where they say they live. Our Safety Guidelines are the result of consultations with Greater Manchester Police and are published in our Membership welcome pack together with hints, tips, advice and useful addresses/telephone numbers.

Confidential and discreet at all times – Select is registered with Data Protection and, through membership of the ABIA, regulated by The Office of Fair Trading.

Q. What can Select do for me?

A. Select can change your life. Have you had enough of being single? Fed up of being on the side lines watching couples having a great time together? Select can help you change that. Not only will we help you find that special someone, you will also have the chance to make new friends and expand your social life. We have helped hundreds of local people to find their ‘ideal partner’ by introducing them to like minded and compatible people – we can help you too.

Q. Is there a governing body?

A. The ABIA was set up in 1981 at the instigation of the government for the protection of the consumer. It is still the only government approved watchdog for the industry and regulated by the Office of Fair Trading.

Q. What type of people join dating agencies?

A. Single people who have never been married before, or who have been divorced, separated or widowed, but all with one thing in common. They are single and looking to meet someone like you.

Q. Will I be video'd?

A. No, we don't use videos during the matching process. When you arrive at our offices you will be met by one of our trained consultants for a personal one to one interview. This gives you the chance to meet us, see where we work, how we work and helps you understand our matching process. We talk to you - find out about you and then match you by compatibility.

Q. Are people who join only looking for marriage?

A. People join us for many reasons all of them very personal. Mainly however, they fall into three groups – those looking for marriage, those looking for a long term relationship and those looking for close friendships. Whatever your reason for joining us, you can be sure that we will introduce you to people with whom you are compatible.

Q. Is Select a confidential service?

A. Select is a totally confidential service. We don't use computers, video tapes or any gimmicks to do our matching. A team of full time staff are constantly searching to find someone you would really like. All information relating to members is kept securely at head office.

Q. I'm attracting the wrong kind of people - can you help?

A. We can help. It isn’t always easy to meet the right type of person but seemingly, all too easy to meet those who aren’t. At Select our experienced matchmakers introduce by compatibility. We take lots of factors into account, including our compatibility questionnaire, thereby effectively, positively and exclusively searching for those members who would be right for you.

Q. I'm too busy to meet someone - Can Select help me?

A. Professionals are working longer and longer hours. Everyone seems to be in the ‘career trap’ leaving very little time for the ‘hit and miss’ game of chance that visiting pubs and clubs entails. There is little hope of meeting your ‘ideal partner’ through these channels. At Select, we experience the ‘hits’ time and again by cutting out ‘chance’ thereby giving our members a ‘head start’.

Q. I'm new to the area.

A. Meeting new people can be daunting especially if you are not familiar with the area either and it is difficult to know where to go to find like-minded people. Our reputation is well earned. We are constantly recruiting new members and taking feedback - that is how we know our methods work and because our service is so personal, we are able to get to know our members in a way that helps everyone to become far more relaxed about meeting people. When you join Select our matchmakers start work right away to find the right people for you.

Q. I've just ended a long term relationship?

A. This can be a time of ‘limbo’ and low confidence but, if you want to put the past behind you and start anew, we can help you to do just that. We are waiting for your call and are ready to offer you the opportunity to make new friends, get back into the ‘social whirl’ and, when you are ready, to find that special someone - your ‘ideal partner’.

Q. I'm over 50 am I too old?

A. You are never too old! Our mature members have a relaxed, carefree and positive outlook to membership and enjoy it for all it’s worth. Quite simply – they couldn’t care less what people think and this seems to be the key. They are forward looking and open about how they are going to spend the rest of their lives and feel that Select offer the most professional and caring service with a more local membership. Because we specialise in the North West area, they do not have to travel the length and breadth of the country to keep appointments.

Q. I have been on my own a long time?

A. Ask yourself this – “where will I be in three years time?” the probable answer will be “where I am right now only three years older.” Having the courage to take that first step is taking control over the rest of your life and Select is here to help you make your membership a most eventful and enjoyable phase of your life. With our guidance the possibilities are endless and all positively geared to enhancing your quest for that special someone.

Q. Pubs, clubs and singles bars are not my scene

A. These venues are O.K. for a ‘one night stand’ but not usually conducive to meeting new people with a view to a lasting relationship/friendship. Wedding and engagements rings are hardly ever worn so there is no indication if a person is ‘free’ or ‘taken’. All Select members are interviewed and their I.D. verified before membership is offered. We ask all the important questions on behalf of our members thereby overcoming those first ‘hurdles’.

Q. I have a young children. Is that a problem?

A. Children of any age – not a problem. Our wide ranging membership means that we can help those who are open to children and also those who wish to meet someone without children.

Q. I'm very particular about who I meet

A. Eveyone is different – that is what makes life more exciting - it would be rather pointless and dull if we were all the same. That being so, we are all looking for different things in people and in our relationships. What each individual is particular about, is part of each membership record and preferences are taken into account when introductions are being matched.