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Transform Your Love Life With Expert
Coaching from Alex Mellor-Brook
Helping Singles, New Relationships, and Couples
Create Meaningful Connections, and Lasting Love
MULTI-AWARD WINNING DATING & COACHING SERVICES
Alex Mellor-Brook: An Award Winning Expert in Dating & Relationship Coaching
Alex Mellor-Brook is one of the UK’s most respected figures in the world of dating and relationship coaching. With an impressive career spanning decades, Alex is a trusted expert in helping singles and couples achieve their relationship goals. With a compassionate, science-backed approach, Alex has helped countless singles and couples overcome obstacles, discover meaningful connections, and thrive in their relationships.
Whether navigating the early stages of dating, strengthening a new connection, or working to enhance your long-term partnership, Alex is here to guide you every step of the way.
Why Work with Alex Mellor-Brook?
As an accredited scientific dating and relationship coach, NLP practitioner, and internationally certified matchmaker, Alex Mellor-Brook’s dedication to excellence sets him apart in the industry. With a strong foundation of knowledge and expertise, Alex goes beyond the basics to deliver results that truly make a difference.
In his role as Vice Chair of the government-supported Dating Industry Trade Body (ABIA), he plays a crucial role in upholding the highest standards. His leadership ensures that ethical practices are not only promoted but implemented, encouraging trust and transparency.
When you choose to work with Alex, you’re choosing a coach who is committed to your growth and success in navigating the world of dating and relationships.
Who Can Benefit From Alex's Coaching?
Discover How Alex Can Help You
Singles Coaching
Tired of surface-level dating and endless swiping?
Struggling to find genuine connections despite your best efforts?
Disappointed by dates that feel like they’re going nowhere?
Feeling disillusioned by the dating world and unsure where to turn?
How Alex Mellor-Brook Helps:
If you’re feeling overwhelmed by modern dating or unsure of how to attract a meaningful, lasting relationship, coaching can help you build the confidence and mindset you need to succeed. Together, we’ll help you recognise true compatibility, ensuring you meet people who align with your values and long-term goals. You’ll gain clarity on your path forward, overcoming the frustration of superficial connections and focusing on what truly matters—finding someone who complements you at a deeper level. It’s time to stop settling and start attracting the relationship you deserve.
New Relationships Coaching
Worried about keeping the momentum alive and avoiding common pitfalls?
Do you feel like your new connection is losing its spark?
Wondering how to navigate tricky early-stage relationship dynamics?
Concerned about whether your relationship is on the right track for long-term success?
How Alex Mellor-Brook Helps:
If you’re starting a new relationship and want to ensure it’s built on a strong foundation, coaching can help you create a deeper, lasting connection. We’ll focus on developing communication skills that promote understanding and prevent common early pitfalls. You’ll gain clarity on how to nurture and grow your relationship, ensuring it stays on the right track for long-term happiness and success. Don’t leave the future of your relationship to chance—let’s work together to ensure it thrives from the very start.
Couples Coaching
Feeling disconnected, stuck in the same old arguments, or unsure how to rekindle the intimacy you once had?
Do you find yourselves arguing over the same things with no resolution?
Struggling to communicate effectively, leading to misunderstandings and frustration?
Want to reignite the passion and trust that once defined your relationship?
How Alex Mellor-Brook Helps:
If you’re feeling disconnected from your partner and want to reignite the spark in your relationship, coaching can help you rediscover that connection and build a stronger bond. We’ll work together to improve communication, resolve conflicts constructively, and reduce stress and misunderstanding. With the right tools and strategies, you’ll rebuild trust, deepen intimacy, and enhance understanding, creating a relationship that not only survives but thrives and evolves. It’s time to reawaken the passion and create a lasting connection that brings out the best in both of you.
Guest Speaker for international podcasts & Events
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Television Contributions
Alex Mellor-Brook has appeared on a variety of TV programs, lending his expert voice to discussions on love, dating, and the complexities of modern relationships. Some highlights include:
Morning Talk Shows: Regular guest on programs discussing trending topics such as dating apps, age-gap relationships, and relationship challenges.
Documentaries: Featured in programs exploring the psychology of love, matchmaking, and the science behind successful partnerships
Relationship Panels: Participates in expert panels to debate societal trends, such as "love at first sight" and the impact of social media on relationships.
Radio Features
Alex’s engaging and relatable approach makes him a sought-after guest for radio interviews. He has been invited to share insights on:
BBC Radio: Discussing challenges like ghosting, breakups, and how to rebuild after infidelity.
Podcasts and Online Shows: Offers practical tips on improving communication, building trust, and navigating modern dating.
Call-In Segments: Listeners benefit from Alex’s live advice on their relationship dilemmas, creating interactive and dynamic discussions.
Print, Media & Columns
Alex Mellor-Brook's written contributions further solidify his reputation as a thought leader in relationships. His work includes:
The Cheshire Magazine: As their resident dating & relationship columnist, Alex offers thoughtful, actionable advice to readers on everything from navigating singlehood to keeping love alive in long-term relationships.
National Coverage:Featured in national newspapers and magazines like The Guardian, The Times, and Marie Claire, where he discusses topics such as the science of attraction, coping with heartbreak, and dating trends.
Relationship Guides: Contributes articles to online publications that focus on dating strategies, relationship maintenance, and emotional wellness.
Struggling to Find Love? These Common Dating Challenges Might Be Why!
Online dating can feel impersonal and frustrating. Swiping endlessly without finding a meaningful connection can leave you feeling disillusioned.
How Alex Mellor-Brook Helps:
Alex’s coaching helps you cut through the noise, focusing on personal growth, emotional intelligence, and developing a deeper understanding of what you truly want in a partner. His tailored guidance allows you to connect more meaningfully with others, moving beyond surface-level interactions to build real, lasting relationships.
Many singles grapple with a fear of rejection or not being “enough” for potential partners. This can make them hesitant to put themselves out there, resulting in missed opportunities for connection.
How Alex Mellor-Brook Helps:
With Alex’s guidance, you can build resilience and a healthy sense of self-worth. His coaching focuses on helping people embrace vulnerability, overcome the fear of rejection, and approach dating with a confident and positive mindset. This not only opens up opportunities for deeper connections but also boosts self-esteem.
Repeating unhealthy relationship patterns or carrying past emotional baggage can leave singles feeling stuck or unsure of themselves. This can lead to a lack of confidence and a fear of rejection.
How Alex Mellor-Brook Helps:
Alex’s approach is all about empowerment. Through coaching, he works with you to uncover negative patterns and limiting beliefs that might be holding you back. By boosting self-awareness and confidence, Alex enables you to break free from the cycle of self-doubt and open up to healthier, more fulfilling connections.
In today’s dating world, there’s a multitude of options—particularly with dating apps—leading to overwhelm and indecision. The sheer volume of choices can make it hard to focus on what truly matters.
How Alex Mellor-Brook Helps:
Alex provides clarity in a sea of options. Through focused coaching, he helps you identify your core values, preferences, and what you truly seek in a partner. This enables you to make better, more intentional choices, reducing overwhelm and increasing the likelihood of finding someone compatible.
Modern Dating, Made Simple Because great relationships don’t “just happen” — they’re built with the right mindset, tools, and timing.
Dating Reset Session (90-minutes)
One Powerful Coaching Session to Help You Move Forward, with Clarity and Confidence
Feeling stuck, frustrated, or just can’t make sense of things right now? Whether it’s heartache, dating confusion, or repeating the same patterns with the wrong people, this 90-minute deep-dive session is designed to get you moving again, fast.
We’ll get to the heart of what’s really going on, identify exactly where you’re feeling blocked, and create a clear, personalised plan to help you move forward with confidence in your love life.
This is ideal if:
You keep attracting the wrong people and can’t figure out why.
You’re feeling lost after a breakup or situationship.
You just need an expert to help you untangle your thoughts and show you the way forward.
What’s included:
A focused 90-minute 1:1 video coaching session.
A personalised action plan tailored to you.
This isn’t just a chat, it’s a turning point.
Date With Confidence (4-Week Coaching Package)
Feel like something’s just not clicking in your love life? Let’s fix that, together.
Whether you’re getting back into dating or you’ve been dating for a while and nothing’s quite landing, this coaching experience is designed to help you shift gears and get clear on what actually works for you.
In just one month, we’ll cut through the noise and help you feel more confident, connected, and in control of your dating life.
What we’ll cover:
Why connections haven’t been sticking, and what to do differently.
How to approach dating without second-guessing or overthinking.
A full review of your dating profile, with personalised suggestions to improve your matches.
How to spot red flags early and stay focused on what matters to you.
The tools to communicate clearly, set expectations, and build genuine attraction.
What’s included:
Four 60-minute 1:1 video coaching sessions.
Profile review with practical tips and improvements.
Written session recaps and clear next steps after each call.
Email support for quick check-ins throughout the month.
This isn’t about changing who you are. It’s about helping you date in a way that feels good, makes sense, and actually works.
The Love Plan (8-week Signature Package)
For the Smart, Self-Aware Single Ready to Meet Their Match
This 8-week one-to-one coaching experience is for emotionally available singles who are ready to attract a relationship that actually lasts.
Together, we’ll uncover who you are, how you love, and what truly matters so you can date with clarity, confidence, and self-worth.
By the end of the 8 weeks, you’ll have
- A clearer, calmer mindset so you can show up as your best, most grounded self.
- A dating approach that reflects who you are and what matters most to you.
- Real confidence in how to connect, communicate, and build chemistry, both online and in person.
- The ability to set standards that feel right and maintain them with ease.
- Tools and insights to break free from unhelpful dating patterns.
- A stronger sense of what a healthy, lasting relationship looks and feels like for you.
What’s included:
8 x 60-minute 1:1 video coaching sessions (bi-weekly).
Tailored dating strategy plan based on your goals and personality.
Enneagram personality analysis to reveal strengths, patterns, and growth areas.
Session recap & action steps.
Dating Safety Guide — clear, essential advice to keep you informed and protected.
Flirting Toolkit — straightforward tips and tricks to connect with ease
This isn’t quick-fix advice. It’s deep, tailored coaching that changes how you show up, and who you attract.
Who Can Benefit From Alex's Coaching? Discover How Alex Can Help You.
Singles: If you’re tired of endless swiping or find yourself stuck in the same relationship patterns, Alex can help you identify what’s holding you back and teach you how to connect with the right people authentically.
New Relationships: The early stages of a relationship can be thrilling but also uncertain. Alex provides guidance on building a strong foundation, ensuring your relationship has the tools to flourish.
Couples: Whether you’re experiencing communication challenges, navigating life transitions, or simply looking to reignite your connection, Alex’s tailored coaching sessions offer a path to a healthier, more fulfilling partnership.
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