Members of Select Personal Introductions who have tried online dating in the past often say that they regularly came across 30 year old women getting hit on by 50 year old men and younger men are often hit on by older women – very many profiles received or sent lead to nothing. Gents date visually so photos are a MUST and they often refer to the women using these sites as ‘up for it’. Despite how online sites try to market themselves, they are what they are – impersonal and an easy way to serial date.